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If pregnancy isn’t occurring as quickly as you expected, you may begin to wonder if you have an infertility issue. When is it time to see a doctor?

Discussing family planning can be difficult, but couples should keep an open line of communication with their doctor to address issues early.

“It can start with your primary care physician or your gynecologist,” said Marie Menke, MD, MPH, a specialist in reproductive endocrinology and infertility at the Center for Fertility and Reproductive Endocrinology at Magee-Womens Hospital of UPMC.

“You can start the conversation by saying, ‘I’ve been trying for this long. What do you think I should do next?’”

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Signs You Should Talk to Your Doctor About Infertility

Couples who have been trying to become pregnant for more than a year should speak to a doctor about the possibility of fertility testing. Likewise, if you are older than 35 and have been trying for more than six months, speak to a doctor.

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“The decline in fertility does become a little more rapid in the 30s, so we want to intervene early if we can for those couples,” Dr. Menke said.

You should also begin a conversation with your doctor if you have a history of:

  • Irregular or frequently missed periods
  • Uterine fibroids
  • Endometriosis
  • Gonorrhea, chlamydia, and other sexually transmitted diseases

Types of Fertility Testing

Your doctor will perform several tests to determine your level of fertility. To do this, they must look at two factors: Your ability to conceive as well as your ability to carry a healthy pregnancy.

  • A physical and pelvic exam, as well as an in-depth look at your medical history
  • An assessment of your ovarian reserve as an estimate of egg quality
  • Testing to confirm ovulation is still occurring
  • An evaluation of the uterus, ovaries, and fallopian tubes
  • Hormonal testing

Doctors typically only turn to in vitro fertilization as a last resort, Menke said.

“There could be a variety of underlying reasons for infertility,” Dr. Menke said. “The treatment we turn to often depends on the cause. There are oral medications that can help you ovulate. If it’s something tubal, sometimes the issue can be repaired surgically.”

Fertility Issues in Men

All men, regardless of age, should undergo a semen analysis.

“I tell most of my patients that there could be a problem with either of them — men should also be evaluated,” Dr. Menke said. “About 40 percent of the time, there is a contributing factor from the male partner.”

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Lifestyle Changes and Fertility

For couples looking to conceive after going off contraception, there is no “magic timeline,” Dr. Menke said. In some cases, conception after ending birth control may take several months. You should talk to your doctor about your family planning needs.

Several lifestyle factors can spell fertility troubles, including smoking, being overweight, or suffering chronic anxiety.

The Center for Fertility and Reproductive Endocrinology at Magee-Womens Hospital offers state-of-the-art infertility services for men and women. Visit the center’s website or call 412-641-1600 for more information.

Smoking

“Smoking is detrimental to your egg quality,” Dr. Menke said.

Men who smoke are more likely to have damaged DNA in their sperm, and regular tobacco use can affect hormone production, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

Obesity

Being overweight or obese can cause hormonal imbalances, irregular periods, and ovulation problems, according to the CDC. Obese women may have trouble conceiving even if they are ovulatory.  But Dr. Menke cautions that women who are underweight or who regularly exercise excessively may also have difficulty conceiving.

Stress

“We know stress plays a big role in infertility, but it’s difficult to quantify,” Dr. Menke said. “There are a lot of studies that show stress is present in many cases of infertility, but we don’t know if it’s a chicken or egg.”

Couples should talk to their doctor about the emotional toll of infertility. Dr. Menke said Magee-Womens Hospital has a social worker on staff to help patients work through the stress associated with fertility procedures.

“There are a lot of support groups out there too — RESOLVE is a really great national group that focuses on infertility issues,” Menke said.

 

About UPMC Magee-Womens

Built upon our flagship, UPMC Magee-Womens Hospital in Pittsburgh, and its century-plus history of providing high-quality medical care for people at all stages of life, UPMC Magee-Womens is nationally renowned for its outstanding care for women and their families.

Our Magee-Womens network – from women’s imaging centers and specialty care to outpatient and hospital-based services – provides care throughout Pennsylvania, so the help you need is always close to home. More than 25,000 babies are born at our network hospitals each year, with 10,000 of those babies born at UPMC Magee in Pittsburgh, home to one of the largest NICUs in the country. The Department of Health and Human Services recognizes Magee in Pittsburgh as a National Center of Excellence in Women’s Health; U.S. News & World Report ranks Magee nationally in gynecology. The Magee-Womens Research Institute was the first and is the largest research institute in the U.S. devoted exclusively to women’s health and reproductive biology, with locations in Pittsburgh and Erie.